【家长必读】《高效能人士的7个习惯》青少儿版,你看过了吗?

2016.04.14
【家长必读】《高效能人士的7个习惯》青少儿版,你看过了吗?

各位驰骋职场的爸爸妈妈们看过《高效能人士的7个习惯 (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)》吗?这本影响了无数政界和商界精英的书,也有青少儿版哦 —— 从小就开始培养他们的好习惯吧!

1. Be proactive - You’re in charge

积极主动,我的人生我负责

habit 1

I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

我对自己负责,做事积极主动。我能管理好自己的行为、态度和情绪。我做了错事不推卸责任。君子慎独,哪怕没有人监督,我也会努力自觉地去做正确的事情。

 

2. Begin with the end in mind – Have a plan

有目标,有计划

habit2

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school’s mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

做事前我会制定计划、确定目标。我会做很多有意义、有积极影响力的事。我是班级里的重要一员,为学校事务贡献自己的力量。我希望成为一个好公民。

 

3. Put first things first – Work first, then play

做事分主次,先工作,后娱乐

habit3

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

我会把时间花在最重要的事情上。勇于向不该做的事儿说不。我制定优先级,做日程表,然后按计划推进。我自律同时做事有条理。

 

4. Think win-win – Everyone can win

有双赢意识

habit4

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others’ Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

我勇于争取自己想要的,但是我同时也会考虑别人的需求。我在别人的“情感银行”帐号里放下我的存款(维系情感)。有矛盾的时候,我寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

 

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood

先去理解别人,再求被人理解

habit5

I listen to other people’s ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

我仔细聆听别人的想法和感受,努力从他人角度去理解问题,也不会打断别人的话。我可以自信表达自己的观点,与人交流时会直视对方的眼睛。

 

6. Synergize - Together is better

协同-合作会更好

habit6

I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups.

I seek out other people’s ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

我明白别人身上闪光点的价值并向他们学习。即便是和我很不一样的人,我也能愉快地和他们相处。我很擅长团队合作,也很善于听取他人的建议,因为我知道与单打独斗相比,团队合作能带来更好的解决方案。我保持谦逊。

 

7. Sharpen the saw-Balance feels best

磨刀不误砍柴工,平衡为上

habit7

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

我关注饮食健康,锻炼身体,保证睡眠。我常常陪伴家人和朋友。对我来说,学习的方法和场所都很多-绝不止于学校。我用有意义的方式去帮助别人

帮助孩子培养好习惯的最佳办法就是给他们做榜样哦!如果在日常生活中,爸爸妈妈也能以身作则,相信小朋友们也能积极效仿的。爸爸妈妈不妨带着小朋友们经常背诵这些守则,或者写下来,贴在能看的到的地方,督促自己,也监督小朋友。